Rules
- Do not stick around in the office for the sake of it.
- Do not say I know when I really don’t.
- Do not stray when you’ve made up your mind.
- Do not let things fall out of your control.
- Do not allow emotions to take control.
- Do not take things too seriously.
This week I told Mr Normal (who has been spending quite a bit of time in my apartment) that we should not be seeing each other this frequently (his visitation rights for this week and last had some how numbered twice a week). When he asked me why, I told him that this was something that I did not want him, nor I, to get used to. I am now old enough to know how easy these things change through time, and I’ll be damned for it to be any different from what I want it to be.
(Yes, sympathy for poor Mr Normal, but as I have explained to him, as we are not in a relationship nor we are friends, what I decide, is about me, for me. Afterall, I did make it very clear what we are, and he does have the choice to not follow through)
So I find myself once again formulating a rule, but I lie, this is really something I borrowed from a Chinese / Cantonese saying:
- Do not take it up unless you know you can let it go.
In the finance world - know your exit strategy.
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